Deer petunias – It’s getting colder and that can only mean one thing: Layers.
All the endless layers to put on your baby. I know how frustrating it is.
First, you have to find all the pieces.
I’m talking the socks, the gloves, the sweaters, the hats, the snow suits.
Then, worst of all, you have to get them on your baby.
Music can come to your rescue whether you’re rushing or have some time to do it (that never seems to happen). My advice?
Have a song for getting your baby dressed.
(spoiler alert: I made up a couple to inspire you.)
This is going to be the song that you sing during the entire process of putting all the layers on. You’ll keep singing it even through the tears and here’s why:
Why You Need a Bundle-Up Song
- The more you sing your song as you’re getting your baby dressed, the more your baby will associate the song with this activity. Eventually, your baby will know that the song will end as does the dressing – and it always leads to going outside.
- Singing the song will relax you and your baby through the process. If it’s a song that’s fun to sing, then you might even enjoy singing it and that will help turn the activity into a positive one.
- If your song involves listing the clothing parts, it’ll help you remember them. And if you’re anything like me, then you’re probably forgetting a whole lot right about now.
Now, what song are you going to sing?
My strongest preference is for you to write one on your own. In my classes, we spend a session on songwriting so that the parents feel more comfortable to start writing songs on their own.
You might already be writing little ditties about what you are doing with your baby. If you are, then the next time you start bundling your baby you can start to sing what you are doing. Try a few different melodies and eventually one will stick.
Another option is to use something that’s already out there. It doesn’t have to be about getting dressed; it can be any song. Or you can use a song that exists and change the lyrics a little bit. For instance: “This is how we put on our socks, put on our socks, put on our socks.”
And, to be a good sport, I just wrote 2 little ditties for you right now. Check them out here. They’re not going to win a Grammy but at least they’ll give you an idea for how simple it can be to write a short song that you can use.
Admittedly: A short song that you will sing for possibly a not-short amount of time until the fingers and toes are sufficiently covered, insulated and secured. But you’ll thank me when you’re out catching snowflakes on your tongue – instead of still in a standoff next to the shoe rack.
What wintergear do you usually forget to put on? For me, it’s gloves. No matter how many times I try. COMMENT below and tell me how you do it.
Been hearing bundling-up complaints from another mom or dad? Forward this to them because parents help parents get out of the house alive.
And if you’re still with me and want more, here is a vlog I did about getting out of the house with our babies.